Eldest Daughter Syndrome describes the pressure that often falls on the oldest daughter, who can end up taking on a lot of emotional and practical responsibility within the family. Recovering Eldest Daughter is Rachel Tunaley's new cabaret, sparked by the moment a surprise gender transition from her older sibling suddenly shifted her from eldest to… not so eldest.
Eldest Daughter Syndrome was something Tunaley had been acutely aware of for some time, and as with all great shows, “write about what you know” became the starting point, right up until her sibling’s transition changed the family dynamic. "I was seeing a lot of conversation online, especially on TikTok, about Eldest Daughter Syndrome and I resonated with the 'symptoms' for lack of a better word, and decided to unpack it more. While it’s not a formal syndrome, there are plenty of similarities in experiences for eldest daughters such as the burden to be perfect or successful whether that’s in career or romantically, struggling to articulate your own boundaries and needs with others and feeling like the caretaker of the family," she tells me.
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Sunday, 22 March 2026
What happened when Rachel Tunaley lost her eldest daughter crown | Melbourne International Comedy Festival | The Motley Spielhaus
West Gate review | Melbourne Theatre Company
That optimism, however, was undercut by warning signs that were raised but not fully heeded. When the West Gate Bridge collapse occurred on 15 October 1970, killing 35 workers, the bridge’s meaning suddenly flipped. What had symbolised progress and ambition came to represent the human cost behind it, a reminder that rapid growth and grand vision can come at a devastating price.
Thursday, 19 March 2026
Someday We’ll Find It review | Meat Market
Where can you swim with pigs on the beach? It’s one of the many questions Zachary Sheridan hurls into the void of the internet in Someday We’ll Find It. Over a tight 50 minutes, the work makes clever use of its time, playing with form and structure to probe our compulsive need to search for answers online. Some questions are absurd, some surprisingly profound, and others sit in the realm of the unanswerable, yet all speak to that endless, almost instinctive urge to keep typing, scrolling, and seeking.
Sheridan’s performance is notably restrained and grounded, a deliberate and necessary choice for a solo work built on such an unrelenting stream of text. Carrying long passages without pause, he allows rhythm and accumulation do the heavy lifting without over-performing. The stillness and control required to sustain that tone indicates a performer who understands exactly when to hold back. In doing so, he creates opportunities for the audience to project meaning onto the questions themselves, turning what could easily be repetitive into something absorbing, and at times, unexpectedly affecting.
Wednesday, 18 March 2026
Eva Seymour on the comedy of waiting in the wings | Melbourne International Comedy Festival | The Motley Wherehaus
The Understudy centres on the long wait that comes with being on call, unfolding into a deeper dive of what it means to be an actor, largely defined by job insecurity and the shifting demands of the industry. "Writing a show about understudying made me realise it’s a microcosm of the actor’s life," Seymour explains. "Waiting for the call as an offstage cover puts you at the whim of many things beyond your control, and you have to do mental gymnastics just to manage the anxiety. Actors are constantly doing that, whether they admit it or not. You can follow every rule, make every 'right' choice, and still not be where you want to be. That uncertainty, the missed opportunities, and the sacrifices it requires - sometimes it strains relationships, makes you question yourself, and reminds you how much of your life gets put on hold for work you may never even do."
Sunday, 15 March 2026
Laughing through sharehouse horrors with Amelia Pawsey | Melbourne International Comedy Festival | Trainscendence
Amelia Pawsey has spent years immersed in Melbourne’s
performing arts community, thriving in ensemble work and collaborating with a
range of directors and artists. Now, she’s stepping out on her own with her
first solo production, Love Letter to Heephah, a playful and poignant
blend of comedy and songwriting drawn from her experiences in a share house
where everyday moments of chaos, absurdity, and everything in between are revealed
with humour, honesty, and a bit of mischief.
"I absolutely cherish ensemble work, in particular, within the Melbourne
independent theatre scene. I have worked with many talented artists since
graduating drama school and have always felt inspired by the work of Aussie
creatives! I've had a lingering thought for years to give stand-up a go but
I've been too scared to back myself, making excuses why I wouldn't be good at
it," she explains. "Then this year I thought, that's not a valid
reason to not try something! It was in conversation with my housemates about
Heephah the random fox statue in our living room, where I realised I could
combine my passion of songwriting with stand-up, that Love Letter To Heephah
was born, and I could not be more excited to share this with MICF
audiences."
Saturday, 14 March 2026
The Pandas of The Adelaide Zoo review | Cub Voltaire
Smith’s script tells two stories in parallel. One follows Wang Wang (Smith) and Fu Ni (Elizabeth Harvey) as they pass their hours, days, and years within the zoo, relying on nothing but each other for company. The second traces Trev and Hayley (Jake McNamara and Charli Lewis) as they record an episode of Totally Wilderness, observing the pandas, with each person bringing their own intentions, curiosities, and emotions to the encounter.
Friday, 13 March 2026
Mature Skin review | Northcote Town Hall
Peter Paltos and Bailey Ackling Beecham bring an affecting chemistry, built on a tension that sits somewhere along seduction and resistance. Their characters circle one another with a mixture of fascination and discomfort, and the actors maintain that equilibrium with poise. The result is a volatile entanglement, where magnetism and hesitation are never quite separate.
